Thursday, March 12, 2015

Domestic Workers/Servants, Housemaids, Babysitters, and House-helps: Can You Really Trust Them Anymore?




If only I could have access to interview one or two domestic servants, housemaids, babysitters or House-helps before typing this narration, the article would have been balanced from the two sides of the divide. Nevertheless, that will not deter me from shedding light on the phenomenal cause of domestic abuses going out of fashion between the supposed Domestic Servants (the term I will use interchangeably for all the aforementioned category of workers) and the Almighty ‘Oga’ and ‘Madams’. According to Wikipedia, A domestic worker is a person who works within the employer's household. Domestic workers perform a variety of household services for an individual or a family, from providing care for children and elderly dependents to housekeeping, including cleaning and household maintenance. The term Domestic Servants refers generally to all categories of employees saddled with the responsibility of taking care of house chores in exchange for remuneration/wages. These House chores could be:

1.     Cleaning of the House
2.     Baby-sitting
3.     Cooking
4.     Laundry
5.     Gardening
6.     Running Errands
7.     Elderly Care
8.     Pet Care
9.     Personal Assistance
10.                        General Maintenance.



This is the concept of Domestic Servants in the Stone Age era, Colonial and Modern Day Practice;


Ancient World Slavery
Slavery seems to have been a common practice in many ancient societies such as Egypt, China and the Middle East. Most slaves originated from the spoils of war, kidnap or voluntarily to pay for debts. The treatment of slaves varied in the ancient world, but in most cases slaves were the property of the master, with little or no rights or status. This meant that many were treated harshly, although most ancient societies had some laws to regulate slavery, such as the Babylonian Code of Hammurabi (1750 BC).

Slavery allowed in the Old Testament.
Some people are shocked that slavery was an accepted practice in the Old Testament. However, it must be remembered that the slavery sanctioned in the bible is very different to the slavery that occurred in the Americas in the 17th and 18th Centuries which is perhaps the popular view of slavery. Old Testament treatment of slaves was also generally more humane than the slavery practiced in other ancient civilizations.
In Roman society the experience of slaves varied depending on their master and the work assigned to them. Some slaves were made to work hard and could be disciplined ruthlessly for minor mistakes, whilst others placed in large villas could have little work to do and were well looked after. Sometimes rich masters kept more slaves than necessary to display their wealth. It is estimated that at the time of Augustus, the richest 5 per cent of Roman citizens owned 1 million slaves; another 2 million slaves were employed elsewhere out of a total population of 7.5 million. Reference…..David Meager http://archive.churchsociety.org/

In Islamic law, the topic of slavery is covered at great length.[1] The Quran (the holy book) and the hadith (the sayings of Muhammad) see slavery as an exceptional condition that can be entered into under certain limited circumstances.[2] Only children of slaves or non-Muslim prisoners of war could become slaves, never a freeborn Muslim.[3] They also consider manumission of a slave to be one of many meritorious deeds available for the expiation of sins.[4] According to Sharia, slaves are considered human beings and possessed some rights on the basis of their humanity. In addition, a Muslim slave is equal to a Muslim freeman in religious issues and superior to the free non-Muslim.[5]

In practice, slaves played various social and economic roles, from Emir to worker. Slaves were widely employed in irrigation, mining, pastoralism, and the army. Some rulers even relied on military and administrative slaves to such a degree that they seized power. However, people did not always treat their slaves in accordance with
Islamic law. In some cases, the situation was so harsh that it led to uprisings, such as the Zanj Rebellion.[6] However, this was an exception rather than the norm, as the vast majority of labor in the medieval Islamic world consisted of free, paid labour.[7] For a variety of reasons, internal growth of the slave population was not enough to fulfill the demand in Muslim society. This resulted in massive importation, which involved enormous suffering and loss of life from the capture and transportation of slaves from non-Muslim lands.[8] In theory, slavery in Islamic law does not have a racial or color component, although this has not always been the case in practice. Reference..Wikipedia

Colonial era was synonymous with Slave Trade in the following perspectives;

For more than 2,000 years people in many different parts of the world have forced their fellow humans into slavery. Between about 1500 and 1900, Europeans forcibly uprooted millions of people from throughout West Africa and West Central Africa and shipped them across the Atlantic in conditions of great cruelty. To refer to the Africans who were enslaved only as 'slaves' strips them of their identity. They were, for instance, farmers, merchants, priests, soldiers, goldsmiths and musicians. They were husbands and wives, fathers and mothers, sons and daughters. They could be Yoruba, Igbo, Akan or Kongolese.
European slavers dispersed them across the Americas to lead lives of degradation and brutality, without thought for their personal lives. Millions died in the process. As a result, people of African descent are spread throughout the Americas and Western Europe. This is called the African Diaspora. Reference.. http://www.liverpoolmuseums.org.uk/

MODERN DAY PRACTICE OF DOMESTIC SERVANTS
The modern day recruitment of domestic Servants are the ones commonly known as “house helps” in Nigeria and other African States, they are usually recruited by agents or brokers who negotiates with the family of the girl or the boy (most times girls) who live in the rural areas, poverty stricken and need all the money their daughters and sons can make to alleviate their lives. It is important to note that this practice is against the MDGs 1 and 2 which talks about eradication of poverty and access to Universal Basic Education.

The parent are sometimes novice to where their children are taken and in most cases lately, the parents are in fact privy to where their children are being taken to it can be outside the border of Nigeria as it was reported that Nigerian children are almost everywhere in the world as domestic workers.

The recruiters are often relations, friends, and Human Traffickers who can sometimes deceive the parents or Guardian that they are assisting in giving their children better life by taking them to the city or outside the country. Delightful words and promises will be said to the parents who at the end agree with the recruiters.

 Experience has shown that the recruiters can either be the last source or an intermediary whose responsibility is just to recruit and send the children to the agent who claims to run an agency on job placement to their would be hires.
Deception is often the occurring factor because even when the domestic worker is above eighteen and has passed through post secondary school there is always underlining tone that cannot be easily decipher by the engaged worker.

Just few months back, a friend of mine who works in the bank while the wife is a civil servant called to inform me about the attitude of their House help, it was reported that the House help usually receives calls a lot and she most times put her phone ringer in off mode to avoid being questioned on the number of calls she receives. In the end, she was said to have confronted the madam on a particular day and while my friend returned from work to intercede on the matter, the house help was said to have barked at his wife and telling her not to interrupt when Oga(my friend) is talking. My friend and his wife was taken aback at the House help’s attitude, they have two kids and at that point in time it became unsafe for them to grant the custody of their kids to the House-help who was becoming nasty.

Another incident also plays out with another family friend who has employed more than 4 different house-helps in the space of 8 weeks out of desperation to have someone look after their children while they are at work, the house-helps and their agents have device a new strategy of exploiting career family who doesn’t have all the luxury of time to look after their children due to the nature of the economy which most times demand that both husband and wife works to keep the family together. The tactics they use varies in styles. Initially, the agents don’t collect money or fees before providing the house-helps, however, recent events has shown that those in need of house-helps usually pays between N10,000 to N20,000 before they are given any house-help at all. Once the House-help arrives, it won’t take long before the plan to force her rejection will be hatched, she will deliberately put up unusual and untoward behaviors and exhibit unpleasant feelings towards the children and in the course of all these the house-help is sent back to the agents/recruiters. But, before they bring another house-help, you will have to pay another initial deposit which is usually termed transportation fees from the village, this cycle of deceit will continue until they are satisfied with their illicit gain from the rackets.

In conclusion, it is advisable to go through the corporate and professional recruitment agents when in need of domestic servants as this will reduce the risk associated with employing domestic workers whose background you can not verified. The person you wish to entrust your home and family with should be such that in your absence your mind is at peace and there is guarantee that he/she will treat your family like theirs’. Many OGA and MADAMS too sometimes treat Domestic Servants as Slaves, these house-helps sometimes transfer their aggression on the children as was depicted on YouTube.....Watch the Video here...http://bit.ly/1NOgVyl, where a domestic worker physically abused a child or the wicked ones among them may arrange with external forces to attack and rob their paymasters. In the light of these foregoing, it is important to have a standard regulation practice backed by legislations and relevant laws that will protect both the Domestic servants and the paymasters in the event issues of Abuses, injustice, domestic violence occurred in homes where such relationship exists. Oga and Madam should see House-help as Human being and not as slaves, also the house-helps should see their master’s house as their homes too.


Olanite Lekan
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