1. Don’t you ever try to snap the phone
from him/her; he/she might get irritated or felt agitated which could lead to
physical assault.
2. Keep the line of communication as openly
as possible, don’t ever dare stay aloof and evasive in a conjugal relationship,
your union may hit Zuma rock.
3. Try as much as possible to know what
really brought about the passion and addiction for the phone. If you have an
idea of the things he/she does with the phone even when you needed his/her
attention, the solution is not too far away.
4. The moment you noticed your partner’s
addiction to phone is becoming unbearable, start exhibiting your bets traits
and behaviors you know he/she will never resist.
5. Bring up interesting issues he/she
like most whenever the phone is with him/her. If it is sports, ask any question
about Ronaldo and Messi even if you are not interested in the answer.
6. Look for valuable and meaningful
activities that will engage your mind whenever your partner is glued to his/her
phone. The idle mind is the devil’s workshop.
7. Ask him/her to help out with
something you would ordinarily do if he/she was not around, make sure you call
his/her attention to do that little chore that will create a pause on the phone
activities.
8. Find out if he/she has issues at work
or in his/her business. This might also
give you a clue as to what he/she is
digging in the phone’s pit. Has the company reduced his/her salary? What
happened to his/her business prospects?
9. Try to stir the courtship behaviours
whenever he/she activate the mood for phone addiction(18+). This tip is for the
married and engaged couples and partners. If he/she enjoys being intimate at
the slightest provocation, use this tool to curb the phone’s addiction.
10.
Interrupt
him/her in a polite manner anytime he/she is glued to the phone. Bring up an
issue that requires him/her to pay attention to you for some few minutes before
going back to the phone.
11.
If
after working on the 10 tips highlighted first and he/she hasn’t changed a bit,
it is time to tell him/her how weakening the courtship is. Speak to him/her
subtly; show him reasons to pay more attention to you than just ordinary phone.
12.
Check
to see if he/she had asked for certain request from you that had not been
fulfilled because this might led him/her to find succor in his/her phone.
13.
Be
emotionally reactive whenever you sensed the phone has taken over your position
in the relationship, if you know how to cry, please cry about it, if you know
how to be moody and sober, just do just that whenever the phone addiction comes
up, however, don’t get it twisted and allow the drama to get hurting as well
14.
Assuming
he/she is willing to change but the gadget in his/her hand is a smart-phone,
advise him/her to get non-internet enabled phones that could only receive and
make calls, but no social media, whatsapp, and online dating sites, shikenna!
15.
Be
your partner’s best friend anywhere, anytime and everywhere. Be his/her best
friend on facebook, follow him/her like Tom and Jerry on Twitter, Like and
comment on all his/her posts on Instagram even for no reason, chat with him/her
on whatsapp almost every moment, invite and tag him/her to your posts whenever
you did. I bet, he/she will ultimately pay more attention to you whenever you
are together.
On the final
note, start doing something new and different whenever your partner exhibiting
phone addiction syndrome, people are easily attracted to “SHINY NEW OBJECTS”. I
wish you luck in your quest to resolve the societal ilk called phone addiction.
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